tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post1631601157722944737..comments2023-03-26T20:49:45.823+01:00Comments on Grieving Angry Widow: Dear DiarmuidDebhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16483814947273054605noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-73181356057043902822016-07-06T03:15:19.489+01:002016-07-06T03:15:19.489+01:00I believe it has to, we have to have hope. Keep tr...I believe it has to, we have to have hope. Keep trying with healthy choices and things will work out for the better. I do believe God will give you strength, He is molding you. unmerry widowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10381398190073497152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-5355255882704715832016-07-06T03:09:52.836+01:002016-07-06T03:09:52.836+01:00OMG, so true this emotional roller coaster "w...OMG, so true this emotional roller coaster "widowhood" literally stinks. I look at all the local divorces I hear about and I say, "really". All I do is try my best to raise our youngest 2 children 11 and 16 and am so appreciative with all the kindness however I can't believe how insensitive some family members are. Do I really have to beg, to help with childcare. Do I really have to ask 20 time for my older sons to power wash the house. I am learning to do things that my husband did but really. I'm a Ft nurse and back in school to earn my NP for more $$ and better security. My free time is attending to my younger children's activities. My mother does limited help but honestly I wish my husband was here, and she wasnt, I h ate saying that but she's so negative it devours my emotional well being.<br />I am angry at God, yet I do have hope and pray for strength,peaceunmerry widowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10381398190073497152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-81369856285829919162016-07-05T20:15:45.066+01:002016-07-05T20:15:45.066+01:00I too am in the same boat. I am looking for answer...I too am in the same boat. I am looking for answers for the future. Will my life ever get better? I feel so alone and lost. It's been 8-1/2 months. Bernicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12087024650241319911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-21445317989802969042016-07-02T23:18:38.472+01:002016-07-02T23:18:38.472+01:00I just came across your blog today. It will be 3 y...I just came across your blog today. It will be 3 years and 7 months since my dear husband left this planet. We were married for 43 years and were together three years before that. I miss him and love him deeply still.<br /><br />Love, hugs and prayers for you and your family, as you do your best with your three kids as you all grow through this grieving journey.<br /><br />FlowerLadyFlowerLady Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17678852154334714784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-35185633099434120122016-02-18T06:03:56.367+00:002016-02-18T06:03:56.367+00:00Thank you for your honest insightThank you for your honest insightA fellow travellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01965265728441165830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-92003994556497699302016-01-17T16:50:44.683+00:002016-01-17T16:50:44.683+00:00You are so amazing, Deb. Massive hugs to you all ...You are so amazing, Deb. Massive hugs to you all xxxLaLupeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13153127947392144692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-66630471249645583692016-01-17T14:30:13.490+00:002016-01-17T14:30:13.490+00:00So bloody true.
It's hard having to adapt to...So bloody true. <br />It's hard having to adapt to our 'new life' and the 'friends' that have disappeared from the face of the earth can go **** themselves. We don't need them.Lesleymhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02006343816238028021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1867094508823019737.post-49423726117717325532016-01-17T13:51:01.400+00:002016-01-17T13:51:01.400+00:00Excellent words. Right there with you in this new ...Excellent words. Right there with you in this new and unasked for life Deb, fighting, floundering and finding where and how we fit into this place we have found ourselves. All the while discovering humour where we never thought possible, keep (in)sane you amazing lady!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10252283959342918089noreply@blogger.com